Is adoption a positive option?

Well if it makes you feel any better every pregnant women questions herself at one point or another so don't make any hasty decisions based on how scared you are. Being pregnant is very scary no matter what you cirstances and you don't seem to have a lot of support right now. Many of the people on this site have true horror stories surrounding adoptions. It's important to take them into consideration and realize that not all adoptions turn out well and there is pain and loss with all adoptions. That said I have friends and family that have been adopted and are grateful that their mothers chose that for them. If you need someone to talk to you I'm willing to answer questions. Please don't let any one's advice sway you one way or the other this is an important decision that affect many lives make sure you can feel good about what you decide.